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Doing nothing isn’t easy 12

I always thought quitting my job and doing nothing would be idyllic. Ever since I started my career in my early 20s I hated it. For me it was a non-stop battle against fatigue, sleep-deprivation, boredom, annoyance and stress. For most of my working life I’ve had to sacrifice sleep or mental state: I’ve simply(…)

Bubble Bursting 2

Bubble-Bursting is an intermediate to advanced technique but is often used unconsciously by beginners or chodes and selectively by advanced players. Bubble Bursting is the technique of deliberately letting the magic PUA intimacy bubble pop to push a compliance and interest test on the girl. Consider the junior player. Coming from chodesville he finally learns(…)

Early Retirement 0

After I finish writing this blog post I will hand my notice in to leave my job. I then plan to spend up to the next two years doing something very important: living my life Which means that all of my time will be my own and not spent ‘working for the man’. Before I(…)

Give Up 2

One strategy that I don’t think the Gamosphere gives enough time to considering is that of giving up the ‘tactical retreat’. I believe that for a number of men that this represents their best option for the least-miserable life. Take a step back, look at the hordes and hordes of desperately unhappy, frustrated, bitter and(…)

Guest post 0

..and for the 1% of my traffic that don’t come via Nick’s blog…. I have just put up a guest post at www.krauserpua.com

Same Day-De(no)lay 3

It’s a bright, brisk Sunday afternoon and I’m strolling near Victoria with Nick. ‘What about her… I think she’s on her own… Brazilian’  he says, pointing out a girl ambling by. He’s spotted a solo girl and she’s not quite thin enough for him so he’s pointing her out to me, as I don’t mind(…)

Near miss: massive-titted 25 year old Frenchie 2

It’s summer time. After a Saturday afternoon of walking round zone one I’m winding the day up by walking past Buckingham Palace. There’s usually no sets there but it’s nice to get away from the hustle and bustle. I’m about to head back through Green Park when I spot a little hamster walking by with(…)

Another day(game) 0

Another weekend passes. It’s rapidly becoming freezing cold. The sky is overcast and the weather lends a suppressed, sober vibe to London. Such is autumn. At least the parks are beautiful: intense oranges, reds and browns, like a Klimt painting. Saturday me and Krauser are in a reasonable mood but really just not that bothered.(…)

Unexpected Consequences of taking the Red Pill: #1 : Career derailment. 12

By trade I’m a chemical engineer. I’ve invested a lot in this career: difficult A-levels, an expensive and difficult degree and then eight or so years of constantly trying to improve myself as an engineer, suffering awful jobs and poor environments for the prize of skills acquisition. I nostalgically remember at certain points taking great(…)

One False Move: SDL near-miss 1

It’s been a month or so since I’ve done any Game. I’ve been ill a few times and busy. I head out Saturday and try a new part of London. I weasel two sets then don’t see a single other one the whole day. My AA feels enormous. I feel like I’m restarting daygame at(…)